for all my being this definitively Sensitive Person, I can really be an incredible blunderbuss. the problem, indeed, is that Iâ€™m unable to screen it, not to let the Inside show on the Outside. I wear it all right out there on my face, as people close to me are forever informing me, as much as I might try to dissemble. Iâ€™m like saran, not sarah. also, I tend to have strong responsesâ€”so compound my inability to hide them with the, at times, melodramatic degree of the response, and you end up with a social occasion, say a nice little dinner out with close friends, that blows up in your, and everyone elseâ€™s, face.
and even if itâ€™s honest, even if itâ€™s coming from a caring place, it seems in the harsh light of day to be kind of… I donâ€™t know exactlyâ€”difficult of course, but also harshâ€”a harsh way to be with people you love. kind of violent, emotionally. in any case, not easy.
the other thing this calls to mind is– just how the fuck my ex never clued in that I was lying and miserable for so long is a mystery.
no. not a mystery. an explanation. not an excuse, but an explanation.